STOP IT! OLDER WOMEN ARE SEXUAL BEINGS TOO!

 

STOP IT!  OLDER WOMEN ARE SEXUAL BEINGS TOO!

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I love seeing older single women have active love lives. Single women from their late 30s to 70s. 

I love it so much.

Why?

Because our society refuses to see this group of women as sexual beings. As beings at all. 

Once you get to a certain age and you're unmarried, they expect you to become miserable, shrivelled and grovelling at Shiloh for a man.

It is not that older single/divorced/widowed women don't get male attention or have men who like them. It is that for a long time, it was something to be ashamed of for an older woman to actually like sex or male companionship. 

You are expected to actually shrivel up and slowly pine away till you die when you get to a certain age and have no husband. So these group of women literally hide to meet men. Hide to have sex. Pretend that the notion of sex repulses them.

We still have communities where SINGLE OLDER women are paraded naked and flogged for having a lover. Like that Afikpo woman who did nothing wrong but have sex with an adult man in his 30s.

Or widows who years after their husband's death are caught with a man.

How dare you even think of sex as an older woman?

So when I see older women being beautiful, sexy, getting laid back to back and giving a middle finger to the society, e dey sweet me die. 

When the story about Mo Abudu and her affairs broke out, part of me was hoping it was true cos for a long time, we were programmed to believe that older women aren't desirable. That men, especially wealthy, affluent men only have affairs with pretty young things. That only women of a certain age who look a certain way can use their sexuality to get ahead. 

Asi ocha.

Imagine how excited I felt about a woman in her late 50s being wooed by governors after governors. It gave me mental orgasms. I told my friends that it actually empowered me cos we are told single women will die alone if we're still single at a certain age. It feels good to know that what lies ahead is not dying alone and slim pickings, but hot sex with influential men, some of whom you're older than.

The society sold us a lie, mehn. I look at some older single women even here on Facebook and my body totori me. Some are divorced, some have never been married, but these women are beautiful, sexy, glowing, and still getting premium men and premium knacks. 

Aren't these the women that are supposed to dye alone? Why are they so gorgeous and beautiful and having men swoon over them?

I want more stories to be told about older single women having beautiful, sexual, lives. Hot romance. All the goody goody. Nollywood and alfa malus would have you believe women that age have no one checking for them and that they cry themselves to sleep. That na only barrow pushers dey tell dem hi and they're so desperate they jump at it.

Asi ocha.

These women are turning down proposals from amazing men, enjoying the most beautifully intense relationships and living the fvcking life.

It's one of the reasons people loved the Sex and the City franchise. Cos they started out as women in their late 30s till now that they're in their 50s.

It's the reason I so much love Grace and Frankie and can't even bring myself to watch Emily in Paris. 

If more women knew that getting older doesn't mean lying in bed alone and not being loved, if they knew that romance and all that sweet stuff happens to older women too, maybe they'd be less inclined to stay in shitty marriages.