THE STATEMENT THAT COST MY FRIEND EVERYTHING

 THE STATEMENT THAT COST MY FRIEND EVERYTHING

My friend lost her vision, purpose, marriage and life because of this statement:

"Let your marriage be between you and your partner alone. Don’t involve a third party."

You see that statement up there? It has destroyed a lot of marriages.

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Few months ago, before I got married, a friend of nine was seriously struggling with his marriage and he reached out to me for counsel and training, which I stepped in and helped.

His wife didn't like the idea of reaching out. But guess what? 

When she was having a challenge with him, she kept quiet about it for some days until it ate her up, just because she wanted to keep to her belief of "Let your marriage be between you and your partner alone. Don’t involve a third party."

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She couldn't keep it anymore so she reached out to me for help.

After the whole issue was handled, I asked her "Why did you reach out for help?" Here was her response; "I was foolishly destroying my life and marriage with a wrong belief."

Purse!

Did I say you should go about talking to random people about your marital challenge? Of course not.

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Before we got married, I asked my wife to give me three persons I could talk to when she is no longer listening; I also did the same.

Few weeks after our wedding, in trying to learn ourselves, coupled with the fact that we are living together for the first time, and we are from different backgrounds; we had an issue that needed to be settled.

We could not handle it ourselves so I called in a professional who she already permitted me to do before we got married. 

That was how we overcome.

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"Many times what we are praying about is in the brain of someone close to us, but pride and foolishness can make us suffer in our ignorance." Coach Abibo Berepele 

I know some persons may be wondering why a new marriage or the marriage of a marriage counselor should have challenges.

I laugh you in tongues!

Even Jesus the best teacher, saviour and life giver had challenges in His ministry. He had challenges with His very own disciples who had lived with him for years.

Who betrayed Jesus?

Who denied Jesus?

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That's exactly what it is like.

As long as you are on earth, your marriage will go https://www.toprevenuegate.com/qnc7jtnc?key=be0881e0c2eebdef4c316bb9e3c82db9 through several seasons of challenges. It's your responsibility to make it work.

Here is the question:

Who should I talk to about our marital or relationship challenges?

When should I speak up for help?

How should i go about it?

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I will give answers to these questions tomorrow.

Tomorrow I will teach about "The Four Persons We Must Have In Our Relationship and Marriage Journey."

Remember, every marriage is a WORK IN PROGRESS, there is no PERFECT MARRIAGE.

In all these challenges, we are more than conquerors. We submit our marriage to God and listen to Him as He helps us through troubled waters.

UNDERSTANDING THE MIND OF A MAN 

Ladies allow me to tell you the real mind of a man. Men are different from women, they get attracted to physical beauty. To them it is what they see that melts their heart. 

Don't focus so much on your inner beauty neglecting the outward beauty. Your outward beauty catches attention while your inner beauty keeps the person on hook. 

It is the outward beauty that we always see and if you noticed some men who cheats on their married wife, the woman will be attractive and appealing. Don't wait all day to bath in the evening. Keep up your hygiene. 

Remember, Jacob was attracted to Rachel by her outward beauty. Never get tired of looking good. Who has ever slept with inner beauty? Learn to balance and maintain both your inner beauty and outward beauty in good shape.

To your continuous growth and wellness. 

Class dismissed!

WHY MEN HIDE THEIR EMOTIONS

This is the story of the masculine providers who dedicates decades to a woman and family then find themselves drained, not just financially but energetically, emotionally and spiritually, once things go south.

Take your hardworking masculine CEO. He shows love by providing, in his own way but also in accordance to the education of our culture which teaches men to be emotionally unavailable.

Without the emotional intimacy and bond, the marriage grows apart and for the woman who has often lived entirely from him her entire life, it comes down to one thing in the end.

What can she get.

After all, this is how she knows love to be.

Lack of emotional connection means couples don’t form a close emotional bond and is central to relationship breakdowns and abuse.

It was only through the job I do that I started to realise that most men live in terror that if they show their tender side, they will be hated and destroyed.

It’s crazy that most of us women have no idea about this and I can definitely say that in the past I was guilty of treating men like brick walls, because I thought they were.

I don’t just think that the emotional repression of men is damaging to relationships. It effects not just sexual performance but pleasure too.

That’s because great sex and pleasure ultimately is about emotions.

The link between emotions and sex is huge. When I hear sex coaches making ludicrous comments like that men can’t find the clitoris I just laugh out load.

Because sex isn’t about finding buttons to press its about being able to tune into the body and soul of your beloved.

Which of course starts with your own body and soul.

Erotic energy is a powerful spiritual force that connects us spirit beings to the physical dimension. 

But it’s way more than a horny feeling, it’s about being able to flow through the energy field and feel and flow with your emotions too.

Truth is that we need emotions to be not just happy and healthy but to express our sexuality in it’s true flow.

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