WHY WOMEN SHOULD MARRY AT 40

WHY WOMEN SHOULD MARRY AT 40

Written By, Uche Eze Ann

 

This my last year post gives me anxiety. Tueh!!!

I know this is not an opinion popular among sisters, but then...

Do you know that if not for childbirth, women should get married by 40 and above, by then they would have discovered themselves. Equipped themselves for life, known fully the kind of men they want, and would have become fully aware of the ways of life. Some women would not have chosen the men they chose at 18 if they were 30 and more self aware

Most women who went through abuse were those who married way too early. 

Most who go through abuse now, got married as babies. Their parents hurried them into marriage sometimes to prove that their lineage of girls get married early, 

or to help alleviate poverty.

Or the girl hurried herself into marriage because she wants to have children early, so that by the time she is 33, her daughter is 18, so she will be on Facebook doing, "come and see my mother ee". Or because of a lot of other mundane reasons too numerous to mention 

I'm sure a lot of people will not believe that girls can actually get married for reasons as mundane as wanting to be married on time so that they will be twinning with their daughters while still young.

Today, I saw the story of a sixty-year-old woman who left her marriage at the moment her last daughter got married. They said she waited for all of them to leave home 

This is the sad story of a lot of women in this life, they wasted their youth, and prime in unhealthy and unwholesome situationships.

Imagine a woman getting married at 18 years and the marriage goes south from day one but she has to be there..... Until she is sixty when her last child is married. Or till the man dies.

 That's like 42 years of a loveless life. Tufia